Accepting to Improve
Accepting to Improve your Personal Life
Do you have the ability to accept the things you can change
and the things you cannot change? Do you have the ability to
accept that other people are opt to change them, rather than
you changing them? Do you accept that you are who you are,
regardless of what others think? Can you accept the many
changes that take place in your life?
If you answered yes to one or all of these questions then
you are off to the start of improving your personal life. If
you are willing to accept, you have the ability to laugh, even
when something is not funny. For instance, if someone pushed
you, you could stand back and laugh. The push is only a threat
to your emotion, which you will see, accept and find a way to
gain control of the situation.
When you can accept things in life, including you and others
you find a way to take control. When you are in control, it
helps you to see how you can improve your personal life. When
you learn to accept you will learn to discover you.
Individuality is personal, which philosophers over generalize
this subject. Many people in the world believe that when we act
the same way at all times, we have established our identity.
Politically incorrect! We have emotions, thoughts, behaviors,
actions, and have been plagued by a world of influences both
good and bad. Each day we will feel something new, which causes
our personality to reflect on these changes. Therefore, when
you see someone laughing one minute and crying the next, you
are seeing a shift in emotions, which is a normal pattern of
identity for this person. Unless the persons eyes change,
behaviors change dramatically, friends change regularly, etc,
and you are seeing common behaviors. We live in a world that
desensitizes us. We are surrounding by billions of influences
on television, in the media, on radio, in house-holds,
government, schools and so forth. Each to their own, but
everyone is judging someone at some time, which is something we
have to accept. We cannot change these peoples behaviors and
way of thinking, but we can change ours. This is a part of
learning and accepting. The best way around the world is become
your own influence and allow other influences to make someone
else’s life miserable. Only rely on sources that prove truthful
with their actions, behaviors and words. Positive reflections
are the key to living happier.
Once you learn to accept you will be eager to laugh. For
instance, if someone makes you mad you will see the humor in
his or her actions. You may see the humor in your actions if
you make a mistake and feed into their stupidity.
Once you start to see the humor in life, you will feel better
inside. We are involved in a unruly world filled with greedy
people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and so on. We have to
learn how to work around these people, accept us and move on.
Once you learn to change to better you, other people may
follow. Good conduct has proven far more effective than words
to encourage others to change.
As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and that hunger will
guide you to discover new ways to better you. In time as you
start to feel better, you will see a need to exercise, eat
right, and hang out with positive influences and so on. Once
you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to labor to
achieve your goals.
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